I swear my roommate has a personal vendetta against the flush button. And don't get me started on the kitchen…..it's a crime scene after he cooks😭. He can’t even have the basic decency to clean the utensils that he uses. We’ve fought a lot on this, and I’m thinking of moving out. How can I make him understand my POV while making sure the entire convo doesn’t devolve into an argument?

I swear my roommate has a personal vendetta against the flush button. And don't get me started on the kitchen…..it's a crime scene after he cooks😭. He can’t even have the basic decency to clean the utensils that he uses. We’ve fought a lot on this, and I’m thinking of moving out. How can I make him understand my POV while making sure the entire convo doesn’t devolve into an argument?